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View Article  slings and baby carriers...
i have this fabulous heart to heart sling that i used all the time with keyzia... until i was too pregnant to use it anymore, in fact!! and i've been using it with ephraim ever since he was just a newbie.

a sling is definitely my most useful and reliable baby item. these are some reasons it's good to "wear" your baby from Kelly's Attachment Parenting:

Using a baby sling can make life easier for you and is good for your baby. Following are some of the advantages of "wearing" your baby (from The Baby Book by William and Martha Sears):


It's convenient. You can breastfeed discretely in a sling while working, getting things done around the house, shopping or eating in a restaurant. If you have a baby who wants to be held all the time, this is an easy way to meet her needs while doing other things.
It helps moms care for older siblings. Carrying your baby in a sling can give you the mobility to care for your older children.
It helps some babies to breastfeed better. Some babies, particularly those who are tense or tend to arch their backs, breastfeed better while moving. Also, babies who are slow to gain weight (for no apparent reason) have been known to gain better if carried in a sling for several hours a day, since proximity to mom encourages babies to eat more frequently.
It reduces crying and colic. A 1986 study of 99 mother-infant pairs (reported in Pediatrics) showed that carrying babies at least three hours a day reduces crying and fussing 43% during the day and 51% at night. Babies are happier because they have less need to cry, and parents enjoy their babies more as a result.
It enhances learning. Carried babies have enhanced visual and auditory alertness, and increased "quiet alertness" times. Carrying a baby promotes cognitive development and speech development, since babies are exposed to more experiences and conversations.
Carried babies are involved in their parents' world. They participate in life, rather than see it as a spectator.
Carrying your baby promotes bonding and enhances parents' feelings of competence. A higher frequency of feeding and touching stimulates mothering hormones, and frequent carrying encourages and speeds the development of a mutual reading of each other's cues.


the problem with my sling, is that lately the one shoulder method of carry has been pulling on my already sore neck and shoulders. so, i've been browsing around, and i found this fabulous sling type thing that is actually just a long piece of material. the trick is in how you tie it. the difference here is that the baby is supported on both shoulders instead of just one. the problem with my slingis that my brain won't seem to let me wear it on the other shoulder!!

anyways, i'm going to give this new method a try, and i will keep you posted!
View Article  what?? slept through the night?
so, ja's alarm went off at 6:37 this morning, and after a brief panic thinking i lost the baby under the covers, i realized, HE HADN'T BEEN UP ALL NIGHT!!!! wow! and, even better, i slept right through too! usually i'm up a few times even when the kids do sleep through, so this was amazing! i truly give oursheepskin most of the credit for this! as soon as gramma gave it to us, ephraim started sleeping for long stretches. then he was sick, threw up on it, and we just cleaned it. during that brief time when we didn't have it, he was up every two hours!

on the downside, he thought it was time to get up and play at 6:30 this morning.
View Article  santa scared keyzia!
we were at the cobourg day care today helping out at their annual tea and bazare. ja dressed up as santa for the kids, and i took pictures... it was great fun!!

keyzia totally freaked out when she saw him... it was too funny. at first she just clung to me and refused to look at him, and then he made her cry.... whenever she was in the room with him, she made sure she knew where he was at all times!

i finally got her to sit on his lap, but only after i put ephraim there first. i guess she figured that if he tried anything, she could definitely run faster than poor phraim-bam!